Don’t we all get the occasional tantrum when we
- Throw a book/cup/etc.
- Bang a door/desk/keyboard.
- Go into a raging monologue?
Of course, yes!
That’s why we have such a responsibility in the toddler years to teach our children how to handle that overflowing bursts of emotions.
I think that by trying to put a lid on it, we do not deal with it correctly. Putting a lid on it is when we punish the toddlers and prevent them from going through the whole process. Sometimes it is good to let them rage...
We should also try to teach them how to channel it. There are so many great articles available of strategies. Dionna at Code Name Mama wrote a great guest post at Good Goog about parenting strategies which sums it up for me! It is not about disciplining, but about loving and honouring the development phase in which the child finds himself at!
I am of the opinion that if we approach it in this way we will have less Tantrum Queens and Tantrum Kings around us!
What do you think? Do we go into emotional overdrive because we were not allowed to have those tantrums when we were young?
How to survive the terrible tantrum