tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3410985627936537274.post6493042949508288872..comments2024-02-29T11:25:52.190+02:00Comments on MomAgain@40: Sleeping in separate roomsKaren du Toithttp://www.blogger.com/profile/17962536496240863886noreply@blogger.comBlogger3125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3410985627936537274.post-15676260345842871712009-12-08T07:32:18.850+02:002009-12-08T07:32:18.850+02:00Thanks for this, Lisa. I think we should tune in m...Thanks for this, Lisa. I think we should tune in more to our gut feeling and what works for us and our babies. I must also add that I take Mieka into bed with us if she doesn't settle on her own.Karen du Toithttps://www.blogger.com/profile/17962536496240863886noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3410985627936537274.post-61734262685465263522009-12-07T19:31:28.586+02:002009-12-07T19:31:28.586+02:00Your right every situation is different and what w...Your right every situation is different and what works for yours is best.<br /><br />I also have a angel care unit, I only put it up when Raiden was about 5 months...I didnt see the point as he slept in my room but I use it now so I can hear him when I'm watching T.V in the lounge, it is a WONDERFUL gadget!<br /><br />I dont watch T.V in the room so am lucky enough to not disturb Raiden when he sleeps. I just strongly believe in attachment parenting and the positive things concerning Co-sleeping or bed sharing. I understand that some peoples situations don't allow for that. I really hope I didn't offend you.<br />I was just taken by surprise by how my friend had no thought or feelings to sleep close to her new born baby. She has no monitors. I find that strange.<br /><br />Our situations are completely different, I'm a single mom, so its only me and I don't have to worry about a partner being unhappy about anything. I cant believe you X was jealous...crazy stuff!<br /><br />If Raiden had slept threw the night from a early stage and didnt need to feed about 10 times a night (as he did for the first few months, now its only twice, thank heavens!)<br />Things might have been different maybe.... <br /><br />WELL DONE for not letting your little one cry to much, I've been doing some research on sleep training and letting your baby cry itself to sleep because Raiden still doesn't sleep through the night and there are so many new studies and the negative effects of it..<br /><br />Im sure our little hunnies will start sleeping threw soon.....its going to be such a strange feeling!Mommalicious Momhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/09090022153819808524noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3410985627936537274.post-51555698821669638552009-12-07T07:50:45.375+02:002009-12-07T07:50:45.375+02:00Ai - I remember those days - but so glad they are ...Ai - I remember those days - but so glad they are just a "distant" memory. How can a father be jealous of his own baby? Thank goodness for wonderful Dries. You and I definately did a whole lot better 2nd time round! Yah! Good luck with the sleeping thing. I also could never let my kids cry! They seem to have turned out ok!Yvonnehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/05386491436087479004noreply@blogger.com