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Sunday, 31 December 2017
2017, you are finished!
2017 in review, it's stale already!
It feels like our house at the moment. There's been too much holiday, and not enough cleaning around here!
Tomorrow we will start afresh!
Tuesday, 26 December 2017
2017 in review
This year has been tough! But here we are! We made it through! I look at my 2016 Done and Dusted post, and I had a few expectations of 2017. Some came true, some not! I'll run through the list again, thanks to Tanya at Dear Max and Rebecca who reminds us each year of Nafisa's questions.
As an archivist I get to listen to many the-sky-is-falling speeches, and predictions of a future that is not painted as bright! And then it's a future that we have already surpassed, and we made it through much better than we thought!
2017 had it's moments, but it was also a tough one!
Cheers to us for making it through!
Friday, 22 December 2017
Miss is 9 years old
Birthday Girl |
We have a girl in our house that turned 9 yesterday! Miss is big. Very big! It's sad that's she's not the Little Miss any more, but we love the interesting dialogues we have with her now! She questions the world, and she's got some of her own answers! She has been living the 9 years old life for a year! (What happens when you only turn your age at the end of a year!) By all accounts this year went very well! We are very happy with her report card!
Wednesday, 20 December 2017
All I want for Christmas...
Christmas wishes |
It is always difficult for me to decide what I want for gifts! It is sometimes much easier to buy presents for other people. I also usually buy the things I love the most. When someone asks me what I want, I usually can't think of a thing!
That's what makes me so grateful!
Monday, 18 December 2017
The Circus is in Town with The Grifizzi Brothers at Emperors Palace
The Fantastic Grifizzi Brothers Circus at Emperors Palace |
Not only does Emperors Palace entertain families with the Garden of Lights this season, but also with the Circus by The Grifizzi Brothers with The Story of the Moon. It's a double whammy for families, as you can't go wrong with either, and it is even better when you book for The Grifizzi Brothers AND the Garden of Lights together!
Sunday, 17 December 2017
Johannesburg Staycation Wish-list
Hanging in my city! |
We are staying at home this year. It has been a rough year financially, and we have to save for a wedding next year, as our Eldest is engaged and they have a date!
I have been working on a list of places to go in Johannesburg. The list is all the things we can do as a family together. There's so much to do here, that I don't think we will be able to do everything. It's great to know we have options, and that it not such a bad idea to travel in my own city. I've already bought the Entertainer App 2018, but they have added extra items on each of the offers available. I am also able to Ping a 1000 (1000!!) of these offers. (Let me know if you want a ping? One meal or experience for a the same value.).
Wednesday, 13 December 2017
Tuesday, 12 December 2017
The Beach at The Mall of Africa - put it on your Staycation list!
The Beach at Waterfall Park - The Mall of Africa |
We were invited to The Beach at Waterfall Park at The Mall of Africa on Saturday. Our Miss did not want to leave. But we will go back! At the price of R25 entrance it is well worth going for a day (or more)!
This is on my Staycation list!
Monday, 11 December 2017
The Magic of Emperors Palace Garden of Lights
Emperors Palace kick-starts the festive season with the dazzling Garden of Lights |
Best of all! You spread kindness by going! The proceeds from the R25 entrance fee will be donated to The Cancer Association of South Africa, and the Peermont Childrens and Education Trusts. Children under two go in for free, and a family of five only pays R100.
This is the first time we saw the Garden of Lights! It is well worth the drive to Emperors Palace if you are not staying nearby! The Garden of Lights was switched on on Thursday night, and the night was perfect at the Peermont D’oreale Grande Hotel gardens. The rain gave us a little break to have a wonderful unforgettable experience!
Emperors Palace sunset |
Thursday, 7 December 2017
Questions to the nearly 9 year old
Miss faces |
She's been with me at work for the first day of school holidays, and she's managed to use up 4G of my 5G dongle before lunch. Now she is tasked in making me a picture for my office, and I try not to look at the mess... (This is going to be a long 6 weeks!)
Wednesday, 6 December 2017
Monday, 4 December 2017
Happy birthday to the best Dad!
To the best Dad in the whole wide world! Happy birthday!
You are the best Dad!
We appreciate you so much!
A car seat with built-in airbags - Maxi-Cosi sets a new standard
A Little Something blog drop #maxicosisa |
I was invited to the launch of the Maxi-Cosi car seat with built-in airbags, at MamaMagic at the Ticketpro Dome. Warren Murray, Exhibition Director of MamaMagic SA, introduced the new technology!
Warren Murray introducing the Maxi-Cosi car seat with airbag technology |
Friday, 1 December 2017
Kindness Online
I am a subscriber to the Screenagers Movie newsletters. I haven't seen the movie yet, but I definitely want to in the future. It is a movie that all parents should watch. The impact of screens on our children's lives are not yet fully understood, and the consequences will only be comprehended much later... We hope it won't be too late. See the trailer below.
As much as I am an advocate for the use of technology and how much it is enhancing our lives, I am also aware that we should control this tool and not the other way round!
The latest newsletter is about encouraging small acts of kindness online! As it is the month of kindness, and kind is my word of the year, I love this idea! Sometimes you don't know how to be kind! Is it only the money I give at the robot (traffic light), or are there other ways in my daily life to be kind? How do I teach my children to be kind online?
As much as I am an advocate for the use of technology and how much it is enhancing our lives, I am also aware that we should control this tool and not the other way round!
The latest newsletter is about encouraging small acts of kindness online! As it is the month of kindness, and kind is my word of the year, I love this idea! Sometimes you don't know how to be kind! Is it only the money I give at the robot (traffic light), or are there other ways in my daily life to be kind? How do I teach my children to be kind online?
Wednesday, 29 November 2017
Kindness for Christmas: Consider Maitland Cottage Children’s Orthopaedic Hospital
If you are still unsure about where to spread your kindness this season, there is this campaign you can get behind.
A Christmas campaign has been set up on Thundafund for Maitland Cottage Children’s Orthopaedic Hospital. The campaign aims be to buy a Christmas present for each of the 85 children at the hospital, as well as one big present for the hospital.
Monday, 27 November 2017
Festive Giveaway with the Bring Disney Home Campaign
Bring Disney Home |
Disney’s Bring Disney Home retail campaign started from 13 November already. It will run until 31 December at all major retailers.
"With Disney’s seasonal cheer hitting stores, expect to see some brand-new Disney friends as well as some firm favorites - from the brand new Disney Emoji range to your favourite princesses, there’s toys, apparel, games, DVD’s and so much more, a perfect gifting solution the whole family."
Friday, 24 November 2017
Chilli Non Carne - a great vegetarian dish
Chilli Non Carne with roosterkoek |
Mark and Mary-Ann Shearer lost their Health Food business in the recent fires in Gordon's Bay. They have a Fundraising Drive on the go if you want to help! They have some families in the business depended on the business functioning again. You can see some of the devastation in the videos, but I am sure they will be back with more health, energy and motivation!
The Chilli Con Carne recipe is in one of the daily emails of the 100 days to health. It is a lovely rendition of a Chilli Con Carne, but without the meat. Apparently it's Mark, her husband's, version. I used a can of lentils and a can of white beans in my recipe.
It is delicious!
Thursday, 23 November 2017
5 Lists to survive the upcoming holiday Season
List making |
I have a permanent feeling of anxiety, and when I try to pin-point the exact reason for it, it's not only one thing. The dietician told me this morning that "stress" is the number one complaint she hears from her clients. They are all stressed at the moment! (And of course the diets take a knock!)
The only way I know how to take control of the end-of-year madness is to make lists. Prioritize the important stuff and what needs to be done! It helps you feel more in control. I always enjoy Marcia's Instagram lists on Organising Queen. Check out her 3 Kinds of lists for your bullet journal. She is by far the List Queen!
Tuesday, 21 November 2017
Make every day World Children's Day!
Hope Statue - Nelson Mandela Square |
I still think about the children denied the basic right of education because they don't have id books in South Africa... (To name but one!)
SAD! Human rights violated of children without ID's- not allowed to go to school! via @KarindOrville https://t.co/gnunrarq7S#SABC #Fokus— Karen du Toit (@karentoittoit) August 21, 2017
UNICEF South Africa unveiled an art installation alongside the Nelson Mandela Statue in Sandton City Square yesterday on World Children's Day! (I wish I could be there, but it's still a school night!)
Monday, 20 November 2017
A new hairstyle at Maddy Magoo Fourways
There's a new Maddy Magoo in Fourways at The Gantry. They have been in business for three months now, and apparently it is going well with business. I got a free hair cut voucher from Kids Emporium who runs the joint Maddy Magoo Salon. Little Miss has been growing her hair ever since she got the fringe and haircut in July at Maddy Magoo, Bedford Square. She loved her fringe and her haircut, but she also loves hair styles with longer length hair. She do not want to cut it at this stage.
I phoned Jackie at Maddy Magoo Fourways, and she was more than willing to change the free haircut to a free hairstyle. We saw her own hairstyle on Instagram, and Little Miss got very excited!
A transformation happened. A change of hairstyle is just as good as a holiday!
I phoned Jackie at Maddy Magoo Fourways, and she was more than willing to change the free haircut to a free hairstyle. We saw her own hairstyle on Instagram, and Little Miss got very excited!
A post shared by Maddy Magoo Fourways (@maddymagoofourways) on
A transformation happened. A change of hairstyle is just as good as a holiday!
Thursday, 16 November 2017
It's a World Vacation with Shopkins Season 8
Donatina visits Brazil |
Wednesday, 15 November 2017
Monday, 13 November 2017
Mom and daughter dates are also needed
Little Miss asked yesterday that we go on a shopping trip alone!
I was planning to go to the shops quickly for the weekly lunch-box shopping in any case. So we just had to agree on the best shopping spot. She wanted to go to China Mall, but I convinced her to go to the newly opened West Pack Lifestyle (big-plastic-and-everything-you-can-think-of-supposed-to-be-cheaper-shop). It was a win-win for both of us, and she got a free balloon at West Pack. We also could do the lunch-box shopping at the nearby Woollies and get that cappuccino!
I was planning to go to the shops quickly for the weekly lunch-box shopping in any case. So we just had to agree on the best shopping spot. She wanted to go to China Mall, but I convinced her to go to the newly opened West Pack Lifestyle (big-plastic-and-everything-you-can-think-of-supposed-to-be-cheaper-shop). It was a win-win for both of us, and she got a free balloon at West Pack. We also could do the lunch-box shopping at the nearby Woollies and get that cappuccino!
Thursday, 9 November 2017
Why did she stay for so long?
I haven't taken my soapbox out for a very long time! It's nice to be in a place where I am happy and safe and don't have to worry about going home to an explosive situation! That's possible for all, but only if we do it for ourselves!
I heard a TED talk the other day by Leslie Morgan Steiner about why domestic violence victims don't leave. It resonated so much with me,because a very long time ago in a very different life I was also 'stuck" in such a scenario. For nine years! (What was I thinking?)
The reason why you just don't leave is because it becomes the most dangerous time in your life when you decide to leave. As soon as I decided that I had enough - Finally! Finally! - I announced it to him and to the world. But I started to feel afraid to go home.
When someone shows you a gun with a silencer, when there is no reason to have a silencer... Then you are afraid!
When everything is your fault, although you have done nothing wrong, and you have to say sorry as far as you go. And smile when the person enters the room... I am only learning now about gas-lighting, but at that stage in my life I did not have the words for it! I only realised that he was blaming me for everything that he was to blame for! It worked for a while, as I was so flabbergasted being told that I am wasting our money... In the meantime he was not working, and not contributing!
While I had made a final decision to leave, I had to get my ducks in a row. I decided to tell him that I wanted to try again, but I told my family and friends that it wasn't true, and that I would still be leaving. That's was done to keep myself and my daughter safe! It's strange how many did not believe me, or thought that we had worked it out! It was the most difficult time, but I kept us save by doing the "right" things that would not trigger a violent outburst or make us unsafe.
As soon as we left, it got very dangerous. I had to get an interdict, and had to "hide". It was a difficult time! When you hear about an armed person trying to get into your property, or totally unknown people and friends phoning you and telling you that he has threatened your life! I was very afraid!
But we made it!
18 years later and I don't recognize that person I was, anymore!
Please don't stay!
What Leslie Morgan Steiner also said is that domestic violence flourishes because it is suffered in silence. Do not keep quiet about it! Tell everybody about it!
And ask people for help! People are more than willing to help, but can't help you when you don't want to be helped!
That's my contribution for domestic violence this month!
Don't suffer in silence! It's not your fault!
Related posts:
- Reasons why you should not stay
- POWA - There's an app for helping you get out of a dangerous situation
- Protect you children by not staying
I heard a TED talk the other day by Leslie Morgan Steiner about why domestic violence victims don't leave. It resonated so much with me,because a very long time ago in a very different life I was also 'stuck" in such a scenario. For nine years! (What was I thinking?)
The reason why you just don't leave is because it becomes the most dangerous time in your life when you decide to leave. As soon as I decided that I had enough - Finally! Finally! - I announced it to him and to the world. But I started to feel afraid to go home.
When someone shows you a gun with a silencer, when there is no reason to have a silencer... Then you are afraid!
When everything is your fault, although you have done nothing wrong, and you have to say sorry as far as you go. And smile when the person enters the room... I am only learning now about gas-lighting, but at that stage in my life I did not have the words for it! I only realised that he was blaming me for everything that he was to blame for! It worked for a while, as I was so flabbergasted being told that I am wasting our money... In the meantime he was not working, and not contributing!
While I had made a final decision to leave, I had to get my ducks in a row. I decided to tell him that I wanted to try again, but I told my family and friends that it wasn't true, and that I would still be leaving. That's was done to keep myself and my daughter safe! It's strange how many did not believe me, or thought that we had worked it out! It was the most difficult time, but I kept us save by doing the "right" things that would not trigger a violent outburst or make us unsafe.
As soon as we left, it got very dangerous. I had to get an interdict, and had to "hide". It was a difficult time! When you hear about an armed person trying to get into your property, or totally unknown people and friends phoning you and telling you that he has threatened your life! I was very afraid!
But we made it!
18 years later and I don't recognize that person I was, anymore!
Please don't stay!
What Leslie Morgan Steiner also said is that domestic violence flourishes because it is suffered in silence. Do not keep quiet about it! Tell everybody about it!
And ask people for help! People are more than willing to help, but can't help you when you don't want to be helped!
That's my contribution for domestic violence this month!
Don't suffer in silence! It's not your fault!
Related posts:
- Reasons why you should not stay
- POWA - There's an app for helping you get out of a dangerous situation
- Protect you children by not staying
Wednesday, 8 November 2017
Summer Coughs and Prospan - Giveaway
Prospan Cough Syrup |
Apparently, summer comes with it's own challenges. That's why we are still struggling with runny noses and coughing at night. There's nothing more exasperating than those coughs that keeps a Little Miss awake! You would think that the heat and bright summer days would chase away all the bugs and that we would get a breather from the winter. But, no! We are struggling to put her to bed at night...
(Which means we do not get a wind-down time at night before going to bed ourselves! Which means we, the parents, are also more tired that usual!)
Prospan sent me a goody package, as well as the same giveaway package to give to one reader!
Some tips on how to treat a summer cough...
Tuesday, 7 November 2017
Shrek JR The Musical
Friday, 3 November 2017
A Saturday night in another city
We had a most interesting Saturday night last week. The Voortrekkers had a Zoo Snooze at the Pretoria Zoo, and Little Miss HAD to be there!
Thursday, 2 November 2017
Hasbro Fantastic Gymnastics - it's fun for boys and girls!
Wednesday, 1 November 2017
Tuesday, 31 October 2017
Once you've gone lip plumping, you cannot go back!
NuSkin Lip Plumping Balm |
Thursday, 26 October 2017
I tell her it's a bit of OCD and sensory issues
Little Miss |
The carversations! Even tough traffic is hectic, and we would like to spend much less time in a car... But there is a positive note to it! A car is one of the best places to catch up on each other and hear the daily news.
Little Miss has always used the car as her after-school melt-down safe place. It is the safe place to whine, and melt down and complain about her day.
This past week she has been complaining/crying that she thinks she is different than the rest of her peers in class. There is stuff that bothers her in class which makes it very difficult to concentrate.
Tuesday, 24 October 2017
New Seasons of Disney Junior Shows - Giveaway
Disney Junior - Mickey and the Roadster Racers |
To highlight this, Disney has given me two hampers to give away!
P. King Duckling, Mickey and the Roadster Racers, Sofia the First, Lion Guard and Vampirina (which already launched in October) will start with new episodes.
Friday, 20 October 2017
35 Smiles in 35 Days - Here's how you can help Operation Smile SA
Operation Smile #35MilesIn35Days |
The new campaign #35SmilesIn35Days is in support of those suffering from cleft lip and palate conditions. It has also been created in support of the global campaign Until We Heal and celebration of Operation Smile 35th year.
See the campaign #35SmilesIn35Days video
Thursday, 19 October 2017
Dog dynamics in the family
Camera shy beloved dog PP |
We feel the empty space...
(Maybe not Hubby...)
But Petite Peu is having her best life! She slept the winter with the Eldest on her bed, but pretty soon she was waking her up to come and sleep on our bed. She's been playing musical beds. When we get up in the mornings, she goes and snoozes with the youngest until it's time for Little Miss to get up.
Tuesday, 17 October 2017
A Quick Corn Bread recipe in the spirit of Disney Cookabout Season 2
Quick Corn Bread with Amasi (Disney Cookabout Season 2) |
In sharing the excitement, Disney Africa send us a basket with all the ingredients (except the egg) to make a Quick Corn Bread. In true African spirit, the ingredients included Amasi (Very popular in South Africa: A fermented milk that tastes like cottage cheese or plain yogurt).It’s time! Disney Cookabout 2 starts on Disney Channel, DStv channel 303 Saturday, 14 October 9.25 am#DisneyCookabout #DisneyAfrica pic.twitter.com/2qNxAv6RYl— Karen du Toit (@karentoittoit) October 14, 2017
I am not familiar with baking with it, but came up with three uses over the past weekend. It works very well with vegetarian dishes!
Monday, 16 October 2017
I know I am not the only one worried about car seats for older kids...
Thumbs up for a new car seat - BeSafe iZi Up X3 #CarseatFullstop |
We have had to deal with Little Miss being bullied about using a car seat, and this year I have had to insist again each time when other kids ride with us that they strap in. I always tell them that I don't want to be the one that tells their parents they flew past us through the window because they were not strapped in! They have to strap in before I drive off!
CarseatFullstop logo |
I have been following Mandy-Lee Miller's CarseatFullstop campaign, and it makes me even more aware of how vulnerable our children are when cars collide. The statistics are scary!
Thursday, 12 October 2017
Holiday survival products
Holiday survival beauty products |
As much as I love holidays at the coast, it does not do my skin and complexion very well. I tend to break out in spots. My hair goes frizzy! My skin also burns immediately. I go blood red, and after that my skin starts peeling. This year I only spend two hours in the sun. I had sunscreen on my face and arms, but thought that my legs would be okay without sunscreen. Big mistake... (Don't you think I should know by now?) I am still peeling two weeks later!
Little Miss also struggles with her eczema, and we had to look after her feet very well. It dries up underneath her toes especially, and cracks open in sores. We still haven't found the magic formula to take it away completely, but the Oh So Heavenly Cream has been a lifesaver!
Wednesday, 11 October 2017
Tuesday, 10 October 2017
The Child Friendly App - we found two great spots in Ballito
Child Friendly SA |
I think I heard about the Child Friendly SA Mobile app on Twitter. I downloaded it especially for our trip to Ballito as it was the first time that we were going to be on holiday there!
The weather did not play along each day, but you will never hear me complain. It is on these days that we try to explore and get to know the local places and entertainment spots! As we had Little Miss who would gladly have stayed watching Disney Junior all week long, we had to make sure that she also wanted to go on the excursions. We also searched for places nearby, as our budget were low, and we did not want to spend hours on the road.
Monday, 9 October 2017
Safe travels, Ouma Violet!
Violet Virginia Theunissen |
Finally, because it could not have been that comfortable to still be here. The eyes and the hearing were not good anymore, and she was confined to her bed and a chair. Her children and grandchildren are scattered, and could not visit her often. Luckily she had her daughter nearby!
She also had the angels looking after her at the old age home in eMalahleni. We saw Cecilia again at the gratitude service on Friday, one of the many angels looking after the frail. Ouma Violet used to call her her mother. Even till the end, says Cecilia!